Don't change!

I just read The Four Agreements and I absolutely love this passage:

Find someone whom you don’t have to change at all. It is much easier to find someone who is already the way you want him or her to be, instead of trying to change that person. Also, that person must love you just the way you are, so he or she doesn’t have to change you at all. If others feel they have to change you, that means they really don’t love you just the way you are. So why be with someone if you’re not the way he or she wants you to be? We have to be what we are, so we don’t have to present a false image. If you love me the way I am, “Okay, take me” If you don’t love me the way I am, “Okay, bye-bye. Find someone else” It may sound harsh, but this kind of communication means the personal agreements we make with others are clear.